BY STAFF CONTRIBUTOR
I often witness a young lady struggling under the weight of heavy jerrycans, each holding between 40 to 60 liters of water on her back, as she makes her way up the stairs to deliver it to various homes, sometimes reaching as high as the fourth floor. Throughout the day, she tirelessly visits multiple houses, charging 50 birr for each trip. Additionally, she extracts water from the ground, for which she asks 30 birr, a price that feels unjust given the murky quality of the water.
There was a period when my new residence had no running water, and in our desperation, we resorted to using this questionable water for washing our hands and flushing toilets. Reflecting on that time now, I can't help but worry about the risk of waterborne diseases or skin rashes we might have contracted. We used that water several times, even boiling it occasionally to clean our dirty dishes, making those days particularly challenging.
This remarkable woman tirelessly brings water from various sources to those in desperate need. Ascending stairs with heavy containers is no small feat, particularly for someone of her stature, yet she displays an impressive strength. Accompanying her is her young daughter, likely around two years old, who often enjoys sweet treats. I frequently spot her at the bakery, selecting delicious bread and cakes for her little one. Our paths cross again at the shop, where she picks up lollipops and biscuits for her daughter. Recently, she has taken the initiative to sell corn, collard greens or gomen, and other fresh vegetables right outside our condominium, showcasing her entrepreneurial spirit.
She is incredibly dedicated, constantly working to support herself and her daughter. Late into the night, she can be found outside, selling corn and vegetables while nursing her child. Watching her, I feel a deep sadness knowing that I am unable to offer her much assistance. I have no information about her husband, but I suspect he might also be a laborer. Just the other day, I noticed her selling collard greens; her pile was substantial, yet she had marked the price down significantly. When I inquired about her pricing, she explained that customers were scarce, and if she didn’t sell them that day, they would spoil. She also shared her fears about working near the road, worried that her daughter might dart into traffic and get hurt. She explained to me that the lack of someone to care for her child for extended periods prevents her from seeking a full time job.
Many women, including both single and married mothers, face the daily challenge of making ends meet. After a long day at work, when I feel exhausted and tempted to voice my complaints about my fatigue, I think of these incredible women and their resilience, which serves as a powerful reminder for me to appreciate what I have. These mothers have chosen to work hard rather than resort to begging, demonstrating their strength and determination. In times of crisis, we often look to those around us for support, and when that support is lacking, it can lead to feelings of disappointment. The struggle is particularly daunting for mothers who have no one to help care for their children, making their achievements all the more inspiring. There are remarkable individuals who manage to thrive independently, without relying on anyone else, and to me, they are true heroes.
Inspiration and contentment can often be found not in lofty heights, but in the everyday struggles of those around us. Observing individuals who strive to make the most of their limited resources can fill us with gratitude, reminding us of the strength of the human spirit. Their unwavering resilience serves as a powerful motivator, encouraging us to pursue our own paths with greater determination and satisfaction. Outside, the night may be shrouded in darkness, yet within the lady's embrace, a warm glow radiates as she cradles her daughter, a smile illuminating her face amidst the shadows.